Hi April, it sounds like you’re going through a difficult time and I’m so sorry about that. In marriage sometimes one spouse has more of a drive than the other. It’s important to meet in the middle and compromise so neither of you feels like your needs aren’t being met or ignored. It is also very important to be careful and have boundaries set for things to never say that cut deeply or threaten infidelity or divorce. We will be praying for you and your husband to get on the same page before things get worse. <3

Hi Michelle, I understand the dilemma. My mom was abused verbally and some physically by my dad. They went to several counselors and my dad finally admitted that he just told my mom what she wanted to hear but never would change and would quit going to counselors each time. Right or wrong I don’t know, but my parents were divorced and we were all glad to be out of the house and everything felt so much more peaceful, although we struggled financially. Then he passed away about a year later from cancer. Sometimes we just have to make a judgment call of what will be better for us and our families after lots of prayer. Then hopefully the Lord will give a peace about the correct course of action.